I want to share 7 tips that will help you reduce stress at work now.  Job-related stress is common for many people, but it can be quite counter-productive, can lead to unhappiness at work, and can be detrimental to your health.

The fact that you are reading this post means you want to reduce stress and are aware of the consequences of stress for your work and well-being.  This is good news, as managing stress has to start with awareness.

It is very possible to reduce stress.  After 15 years of trying to figuring this out for myself, here are 7 tips I recommend using at work and after work to reduce stress:

How to Reduce Stress at Work – 5 Tips 

The key to reducing stress at work is to proactively manage your work load. By doing this, you’ll directly address the source of your stress.  Many times, we overly stress because we have too much work, too much complicated complicated work, or work where the results are outside our control.  Here are 5 ways to proactively alleviate stress before it spirals:

Tip 1: Prioritize and negotiate – Not all work is equally urgent.  It only seems so when we are stressed.  Take a step back, make a list of all the work you have to do, and prioritize them based on external deadlines and what is critical to your line of business.  If you do this, you might realize that perhaps only 50% must be done this week, and the other half can be pushed.

It’s okay to negotiate a longer time line if you have a good business reason. Additionally, stress is only reduced when the new priorities you propose are agreed upon by all stakeholders. So, for those that you decide to push, communicate or negotiate your decision to the affected parties, including your boss.

Tip 2: Practice tactfully saying no tactfully to additional work – Many of us want to be liked at work.  So, even when we are stressed and a senior person asks us to do one more thing, we tend to say yes.  Stop doing this!  When you are already overstretched, saying yes to one more thing will lower the quality of your work, and will aggravate your level of stress.  You can learn how to say no at work gracefully – something like, ” I would love to help with this.  Right now, I am under a tight deadline to do x, y, z. Can I help you with this in two weeks?”  or  “I would love to help with this.  If this is critical, is there something else on my plate I can push out?  I want to make sure I provide you with the highest quality of work.”

Tip 3: Communicate, and let go of what you cannot control – Often times, stress occurs when we worry about the results that are outside of our control. In this case, realize that you cannot control the outcome completely, and that’s okay. Instead, what you can do is communicate what you observed, and the risk it has on the outcome, to the relevant parties – your boss or other stakeholders. The key is not to point fingers, but to inform the relevant people that you see this risk, tell them what you are doing to mitigate it, and what they may need to do to help you mitigate it. Beyond that, you have to let go and let the chips fall where they may.

Tip 4: Get help and advice – If you have trouble with the first 3 tips above, find someone who can help.  It could be your boss if you two have a good relationship and you feel comfortable asking for advice.  It could be a mentor at work or outside of work – anyone who can give you sound objective advice, and has your best interests at heart.

Tip 5: Time-box your work – Work will never end if we let it control us until we die; don’t make work your only priority in life: Set time boundaries, and have non-work priorities as well. People are more likely to respect your boundaries if you respect them yourself. When you set your own boundaries and respect them, you will find ways to get the work done in the allocated time box – more or less.

How to Reduce Stress – Outside of Work – 2 Tips 

While stress may be related to work, we also carry it home, and even to our sleep, when we over-stress.  There is a marked physical reaction to stress – shorter breath or even holding our breath at times, darting thoughts, quicker heart beats, insomnia, and a general tension / nervousness in the body.  Any prolonged stress in this state, physically and mentally, can make us more prone to disease as we get older.  So, here is what you can do outside of work to reduce stress:

Tip 1: Sweat it Out – Do at least 30 minutes of some kind of cardio exercise 3 times a week.  Choose the cardio exercise that works for you. Anything that makes you sweat buckets. You may say, “I am already stressed — I don’t have time to work out.” Well, believe me, you need the break. I used to spend all of my free time working. Trust me, throwing all of your free time into work to relieve stress is an instinctual response that does not work. You need the break to think clearly.

My experience: I used to just run outside or on a treadmill. I was amazed at how much energy I had, even when I only had 4 hours of sleep. I realized that it was the nervous energy from stress that helped me run. While I run, my nervous energy dissipates, my body relaxes, and my head clears. I ended up using the running time to reduce any work panic caused by stress, and I actually thought more clearly about practical solutions.

Tip 2: Participate in a Creative Outlet once a week for at least an hour.  A creative outlet is an activity you enjoy (e.g. competitive sports or salsa dancing) where the right side of your brain completely dominates. This way the left side of your brain — the one used for work — is allowed to rest completely.

This may feel counter-intuitive, as stressed out people never seem to think there is time for fun. Participating in a creative outlet, however, is instrumental to reducing your stress at work. We cannot be our best if we make our left brain work all the time. A creative outlet can relieve the mental symptoms of stress — the constant working of the left side of the brain 24/7, even in sleep. (Note: Watching TV is not a creative outlet, as many of us just suppress the stress into our subconscious while we watch TV.)

My experience: My creative outlet, believe it or not, is Salsa Dancing.  I have been a salsa dancer for 10+ years, and I love the escape and challenge; I interact with completely different people at a Salsa club than I do at work.  When I dance, my brain has to focus on listening to the music; how to follow, turn, and synchronize with each partner I dance with.  This way, my logical left brain is “left at home” to rest.

At the end of the day, the key to reducing stress is to proactively try these tips to address stress head on.  It may not feel comfortable at first, but stress is not comfortable either. Stress will happen at work; there is no way to prevent it completely.  We sometimes just deal with it, thinking we have no choice. However, I wrote this article to prove that you don’t have to be ruled by stress. If you address it early, you will be more productive, happy, and on top of your game. Good luck at your job!

Your comments:What is your challenge in managing stress?   I look forward to your comments below.  Thanks.  I am always in your corner.

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5 Thoughts on “Reduce Stress Now – 7 Practical Tips

  1. Happy New Year Ms. Han! Thank you very much for these tips on how to manage stress at work. I need them!

    I have an interview tomorrow and will be sure to remember to incorporate them into the conversation. I’m a therapist and have historically worked with at-risk youth of all kind and want to continue in this line of work without burning out! Your tips are excellent reminders of value of daily self-care and self-assessment.

    Wish me luck! Cheers to you and your family! Keep up the brilliant work!

  2. Ryan Cook on June 11, 2014 at 1:13 pm said:

    This is a fantastic article! I don’t think I have words to express just how important I think this skill is. What’s fantastic is that these tips apply not only to work, but to school as well (I have university students in mind, in particular). These are tips I’ll employ in my upcoming Fall semester, for sure. 🙂

  3. Kassandra on May 30, 2013 at 5:01 pm said:

    In order to handle stress, you must first ensure yourself that you will not shy away from trying different methods.
    Some very common situations that put individuals under a stressful situation are inclusive
    of death in the family, deadline at work, divorce, a fight with the spouse etc and so on.
    This got me wondering, then, about someone with a high coronary calcium score who has a normal stress test.

  4. Marty Pollard on April 17, 2012 at 6:17 pm said:

    #2 learning to say no . . .

    I used to hate it when people said yes to work they really couldn’t do on time. I eventually learned who these people were and was very careful with my interactions with them.

    On the flip side – I didn’t hesitate to tell my supervisor no when I felt my staff were overworked. Sometimes the results was to drop current work obligations in order to focus on new issues.

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