My husband sent me this video last week and I was blown away by its message. It Is < 5 minutes, but carries a powerful reminder for us all – the power of our words and why we should speak wisely. Here is the video and what it meant for me. I look forward to hearing your reactions.
It’s ironic. We often focus so much on wanting to be heard that we forget we are already heard by many today. Below is what this video meant for me.
Reminder 1: Speak wisely to my kids – be patient and be there. I have two girls – 6 and 9 years olds. I am blessed that they still think mommy is awesome. I love my kids but I know I can be more patient with them. This video reminds me that a hard day at work is no excuse to yell at my kids even if they are fighting yet again. They are so impressionable at this age. It is my responsibility to nurture their growth with care as well as set a good example.
What was shared in the video about Nassar is so sad. Many of us may not be that heartless, like his father, but lesser actions can still have a big impact on our kids. There are two things I always tell my kids
When they accomplish something great, “I ask them how they feel?” instead of just tell them I am proud of them. This help them build self confidence. A good friend shared this tip with me a few years ago.
I also tell them “you can tell me anything no matter what happens.” It’s easy now as the worse trouble they can get into is still so innocent. I have to remember to honor that promise and their choices when they are tennagers and young adults. What I can best hope for is that they talk to me when they are confused and especially in trouble. I must be there for them first and foremost without judgement.
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