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My Focus 2026: Rebuilding My Life Force in a Season of Transition

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As I step into 2026, I find myself in a season of transition — one that feels unfamiliar, a little disorienting, and surprisingly freeing.

I’m leaving full-time work and entering what I like to call my rewirement phase. It’s not quite retirement, not exactly a second act with a clearly defined script. I don’t yet know what my goals will be for the next five years. And for the first time in a long time, I’m learning to be okay with that. ...  read more

Relationship Growth: Choosing Connection Over Being Right

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Happy New Year.
I’m sorry I haven’t written for a while.

The last month caught me off guard when a relationship I value deeply became unexpectedly tense—not from anything dramatic, but from a handful of misunderstandings that slowly added up. It wasn’t the kind of conflict with a clear beginning or obvious fault. It was murkier than that, and harder to name. ...  read more

Mental Wealth: How I’m Learning to Find Peace and Purpose Beyond Achievement

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If you asked me a decade ago what “mental wealth” meant, I probably would have stared blankly. For most of my life, I thought happiness was tied to achievement: get into the right college, land the prestigious job, earn the next promotion. Each milestone was supposed to unlock peace of mind. Instead, every success gave me maybe a week of relief before I moved on to the next goal. ...  read more

How to Build Social Wealth to Achieve Lasting Happiness

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When we talk about wealth, social wealth, depth of our connections to others, is often the most overlooked type. We take for granted that when we’re young, we’re surrounded by classmates, teammates, and family. But as life gets busier, friendships become harder to maintain. We forget how essential social wealth really is. You can have money, health, time, even inner peace—but if you’re alone, life will still feel empty. In fact, research shows that social isolation shortens life spans and makes us less happy. ...  read more

You’re Not Alone: What I Discovered About Finding Purpose in Life

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We all want to find our purpose—yet nobody ever teaches us how. We grow up comparing ourselves to others, assuming they’ve got it all figured out, while we’re the ones stuck in limbo. Truth is, most of us feel just as lost. In fact, up to 90% of people struggle with “purpose anxiety,” the unsettling feeling of not having a clear life direction. ...  read more

Time Wealth: How to Gain Freedom & Control Over Your Schedule

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If you asked me 30 years ago whether I felt wealthy in time, I would have laughed. Back then, I was working 60–90 hours a week in consulting, often late into the night and on weekends. I still remember my very first business trip with McKinsey. I was thrilled to be flying from Hong Kong to Beijing, imagining sightseeing and soaking in the city. Instead, I spent nearly the entire trip inside the hotel, working from 7 a.m. until 2 a.m. on client interviews and decks. I barely saw the city at all. That early experience set the tone: my time wasn’t mine. My schedule belonged to clients, managers, and deadlines. ...  read more

Why Meditation Might Be the Most Underrated Career Skill You’re Not Using

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I used to think meditation was a waste of time—and definitely not for someone like me. When I felt overwhelmed, I’d run, dance, or work out. Sweating it out always helped reset my mood. Sitting still? Focusing on my breath while my brain bounced between to-do lists and worries? No thanks.

But eventually, I realized something: while workouts helped in the moment, they didn’t create lasting calm. And in stressful work situations, I couldn’t exactly run out the door for a jog. I needed a way to reset in the moment. ...  read more