First 90 Days at Work – Focus on These 4Cs to Ramp Up Quickly

Last week, I wrote that we should achieve these 5 goals in the first 90 days at work. Today, I want to provide you tips on how to best achieve the first of the five goal – Ramp up quickly. I came up with this 4Cs framework since I am currently 2 weeks into my new job as well. It is helping me keep in mind all the aspects I need to understand in a new organization and new job. I hope this can help you as well.  ...  read more

Everything Happens for a Reason – Do you Believe it?

No matter what happens in our lives, they happen for a reason – for us to learn, grow, and have a better path than the one we envisioned. My belief in fate is especially powerful and helpful when something unexpected and seemly negative happens.

Fate is defined as forces outside of your control that make things happen. An example of fate is when you miss your bus and meet the person who will turn out to be your spouse while you are standing on the platform waiting on the next bus. ...  read more

New Year Inspiration – 5 Ways to Become a Better Version of Myself

Happy New Year!  Wow, its already 4th week of January.  Where did the time go?  I have been meaning to write about my new year aspirations.  I am sharing them to help me be more committed.  I hope they can also help you.

Last week, I saw this great article – In the New Year, Become a Better Version of Yourself.  It inspired me to come up with these five way to  become a better version of myself.  All of them are hard for me, but they are also great aspirations for the year – how to evolve who I am as a professional and a human being. 🙂

Be Patient with myself and others – I am not a patient person.  I tend to interrupt people in discussions.  I get impatient when people are slow to understand or respond.  I like to rush my kids when they are slow to shower, clean up, brush their teeth. You get the picture.  This will be one of the hardest one to adhere to..  I think deep down I believe if I just rush others and myself, I will get more done.   It sounds silly now that I have articulated it :-).   This year, I will try to work on the following:

  • Interrupt less and listen more.
  • Remember to pause before I react to an unexpected situations.   Let things cool.  Sometimes they resolve on their own.
  • Accept mundane things will take time.  Dedicate the time to get it done right.   This one stems from an experience I had just last week. I upgraded my work phone.  It probably should have taken about an hour.  It took me about 7 hours over 3 days instead.   It was however completely self-inflicted.  I was trying to save that hour by multitasking this while working.  Let’s just say I learned the hard way quickly rushing has unintended results :-). C’est la vie
  • Be judicious about what I must do right away.  As a productive person, I tend to want to do many things a day to feel accomplished – a “hamster” on a never-ending “hamster wheel.” Need to remember that less is more.
  • Be patient with my kids.
  • Allow myself to slow down and enjoy the journey – I am trying to ramp up on a big role this year. Even though I have until April to do it, I can tell I am rushing to do it faster.    I will enjoy this journey much more if I pace myself.
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    How to Manage Millennials on Your Team

    Millennials

    It’s my distinct pleasure to introduce our first Executive Author, Kate Lin (pen name).  Kate has an MBA from Stanford Graduate School of Business, and over 20 years of work experience.  In the last 2 years, she has had extensive experience managing Millennials (aka recent college graduates) in her operations team.  Here are her insights and tips on:

    • The benefits and challenges of having Millennial team members.
    • How to effectively manage Millennials – what to do and not to do.
    • How to select the best Millennials to work on your team.

    Here is our interview; some answers are paraphrased.

    Lei: Kate, thank you so much for your time.  To set some context, what is your definition of a Millennial?

    Kate: Anyone born in the mid-1980’s until now — generally people right out of school, or those who’ve been out of school for a few years but are just entering the world of business.

    Lei: What do you think the benefits are of having Millennials on your team?

    Kate: They have no real baggage. Though not all of them are completely naive, this is mostly their “first time at the rodeo”.  There are 3 great traits of the Millennial generation:

    • Openness. This is a little bit due to self-selection as a result of my industry (tech, tech-related services), but they’re open to trying different things to accomplish a goal. They are also eager to learn something from the process.
    • Inquisitive. They want to learn why something is the way it is, instead of just doing something robotically. They are motivated by understanding the bigger picture and knowing how their work can contribute to the overall goal.
    • Confident. I have noticed that Millennials don’t hesitate to ask questions when it comes to the learning process; this is also true of young women. The questions aren’t posed in an arrogant way, but they verbalize some of the confusion concerning corporate decisions that those of us with baggage may observe but not mention.

    Lei:  What are some of the key challenges involved with having Millennials on your team?

    Kate: Many Millennials grew up being awarded a medal for “showing up”.  I have seen 4 common challenges:

    • Entitled. Many Millennials grew up always getting what they wanted, or were thought of as A++ in their parents’ eyes. Unfortunately, college doesn’t help too much with their perspective. In these cases, the workplace can be a harsh wake-up call for them.  If you happen to be the first manager of a person who is like this, you have to be prepared to deliver tough information in a way that is direct, but doesn’t bruise any potentially fragile egos.

    • Difficult to focus. Millennials tend to have a built-in attention-deficit disorder that needs to be unlearned once they get to the working world.  The fact that they still have access to all their social channels at work (text messages, chat windows, news feeds for business products like Chatter or Yammer) doesn’t help.  A Millennial’s phone is their lifeline — some don’t think twice about checking their phone (and sometimes texting a reply) while you’re talking to them.  They may even think this is acceptable, since they see executives checking their phones while in meetings.

    • Work-life balance: This is an odd one for me to describe as a “challenge”.  I have seen a generational return to enjoying a life that doesn’t revolve around work. Millennials don’t work if they don’t have to, and they don’t check work emails on weekends if they don’t have to. As a manager at a tech company, I find that this balance can be both rewarding and a challenge, as we may have different interpretations regarding what is expected when a problem is deemed to be a high priority.

    • Impatient and Eager. If they’re bright, they’re going to be eager and will pick up their responsibilities quickly. Since Millennials tend to do their jobs efficiently, they have more time to ruminate. As a result, they may get impatient because they’re bored, but they may not yet have the credibility or autonomy to take on more responsibilities or implement improvements. Or, due to their lack of perspective, they may wonder why executives are being stupid and not doing easy fix XYZ to improve the business, which seems like common sense from their vantage point. The could make them even more impatient or frustrated.

    Lei:  Wow, it sounds like Millennials can be a real challenge if you have them on your team.   Can you talk a little bit about what you think managers should do to effectively manage Millennials?

    Kate: Yes, they can be a challenge.  I also found that knowing some unique characteristics about their generation can really help a manager understand how they can leverage the benefits of this generation, while proactively addressing common challenges early on.  Many Millennials are super smart and capable. With the right guidance, you can inspire them to high performance.

    Here are some of my thoughts on how to effectively manage millennials:

    Have conversations early and often about workplace expectations. Be explicit and don’t assume that the Millennial team member knows what is expected of them in a professional setting, as they grew up in a different generation. This will help you with two of the challenges I mentioned above – difficulty with focusing and a heavy emphasis on work life balance.  For example, talk to them directly about why it may be okay for Executive Jane to be checking and responding to her phone in a meeting, and why it is inappropriate for them to copy the same behavior.

    Another example is being specific if you need them to work after hours and on the weekend.   Since Millennials more highly value their work life balance than other generations, like those of Gen X or the Baby Boomers, it is not enough to just imply those things.

    Guide them to learn how to focus.  Some Millennials have never experienced focused concentration for long periods of time versus multi-tasking. If their work requires writing, researching, or reading, you might want to propose an “interruption-free” half-day, or something where they can take some small steps in seeing the benefits of turning off the social channels in order to concentrate on some work. This may take a few attempts, as you shouldn’t expect a Millennial to fully disconnect cold turkey on Day 1 of this exercise.

    Provide context for their work.  Millennials like to know how their work fits into the bigger picture. Since that is the case, provide context to them when you delegate work. Also, try to allocate time to answer their 

    questions. Once a Millennial understands how their work fits into the big picture, they can execute their work more efficiently, as well as raise concerns if they encounter issues.

    This can also help when a Millennial is impatient about the fact hat management isn’y yet doing anything about a problem that they think is easily fixed. You can at least count on them to voice it to you; when they do, be transparent in your communication — share the larger perspective regarding why management may need to delay this decision. This way they can see that the delay is for good reasons that they were not aware of before.

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    Patience – Use it to Speed Up Results

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    I was driving my daughter, Isabel, today to her little gym class today.  It was morning rush hour, and the streets were crazy. Pedestrians were blatantly jaywalking in front of my car when I had the green light; cab drivers were swerving past me just to break hard again for a red light; a car was literally on my butt, trying to pass me on a one-land street — and I was driving above the speed limit!

    I should not complain — I was one of those folks not too many years ago: I was working 60-80 hours a week; I jay-walked all the time, and also brought plenty of that “rush” mentality to work, to my own detriment. I was a constant overachiever like most consultants: Any time I got an email about a client crisis or an emergency, I would rush myself and others to resolve all of it that evening. I ended up over-working, and I made others overwork unnecessarily. To me, it was critical to get things done as soon as I got them.

    I didn’t learn the wisdom of patience until 6 years ago, when I learned how it makes me more efficient at accomplishing things. In 2004, I experienced a serious work-related injury called RSI. My doctor told me that I must not work more than 8 hours a day, in order to fully recover, for about 12 months. So, if I received any urgent requests at 5 pm or later, I had to wait until the next day to figure out how to resolve it.

    Something miraculous happened: many times the problem resolved itself, or the solution would magically present itself — all by the next morning. Here are three reasons why:

  • People sending the requests to me were also rushers.   A lot of the time, people (clients, partners, my managers) jumped the gun and declared something a crisis.  They got too many people involved too quickly, and then, a few hours later, found information that basically made the crisis obsolete.  I would then get an email in the morning to ignore the request from the previous evening.  Perfect!
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