How to Hire the Right Talent for Your Team – 4 Tips

Hiring good talent is hard. It’s more of an art than a science. You usually have to do it on top of a full time job. Just asking behavioral questions do not work. And there is usually little time to evaluate each candidate.

When done right however, hiring the right talent for your team is one of the most critical skills for a manager. The right talent can ramp up quickly and save you time. He or she can also increase team performance and morale. The right talent will in turn hire high quality people. On the other hand, if you hire the wrong talent, work can become a nightmare not just for you but also for your team. This is why no matter how busy you are, you must invest time and energy in hiring.  ...  read more

The Power of Words – Speak Wisely at Work and at Home

My husband sent me this video last week and I was blown away by its message.  It Is < 5 minutes, but carries a powerful reminder for us all – the power of our words and why we should speak wisely.  Here is the video and what it meant for me.   I look forward to hearing your reactions.

It’s ironic.  We often focus so much on wanting to be heard that we forget we are already heard by many today.  Below is what this video meant for me.

Reminder 1: Speak wisely to my kids – be patient and be there.   I have two girls – 6 and 9 years olds.  I am blessed that they still think mommy is awesome.  I love my kids but I know I can be more patient with them.  This video reminds me that a hard day at work is no excuse to yell at my kids even if they are fighting yet again.  They are so impressionable at this age.  It is my responsibility to nurture their growth with care as well as set a good example.

What was shared in the video about Nassar is so sad. Many of us may not be that heartless, like his father, but lesser actions can still have a big impact on our kids.  There are two things I always tell my kids

  • When they accomplish something great, “I ask them how they feel?” instead of just tell them I am proud of them.  This help them build self confidence. A good friend shared this tip with me a few years ago.
  • I also tell them “you can tell me anything no matter what happens.” It’s easy now as the worse trouble they can get into is still so innocent.  I have to remember to honor that promise and their choices when they are tennagers and young adults.   What I can best hope for is that they talk to me when they are confused and especially in trouble.   I must be there for them first and foremost without judgement.
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    Should I be Working While Sick?

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    Should I be working while sick?  The answer ideally is no.  If I am sick, I should go home and rest.  Come back when I feel better.  The real world however is not that simple, especially when we are talking about everyday illnesses, such as a cold or a flu.

    Every time I feel unwell, I debate whether to take time off or how to work while sick.  This is because in the modern world of Paid Time Off and tight deadlines for busy professionals, we have to figure out the tradeoffs between suddenly taking time off vs the impact of it on our work.  Here are five key considerations for many of us.

    1. Can I truly let go of the work and rest if I take sick days. Whether I recover quickly  depends on whether I can truly rest.  Depending on my work situation, I may stress more if I tried to not work abruptly and rest.
    2. Taking sick days will eat into my vacation days.   Most companies no longer give us sick days separate from our vacation days.  Instead we get Paid Time Off (PTO).  Therefore, taking 3 days off to recover from a cold, just means 3 less days of vacation that year.   Is it worth it?
    3. Will resting even help me recover?  I may choose to take some time off, but it may not help me recover faster, as some colds will just need to take its course.  That is sort of why my husband would argue, a cold without a fever is just discomfort, not sickness.   Just let it take its course.  I cannot rush it anyway.
    4. Will the work be worse if I went away suddenly?  This is a serious consideration. Ever go on vacation and come back to twice amount of work and stress?  Well, this would be similar or worse since the time off is unplanned.
    5. How will this affect my reputation?  If I am presenting at an important leadership meeting, can I just say no at the last minute if I am sick?  should I?  If there is a key deadline coming up, do I have the luxury to take any time off to rest or should I just rest after the deadline is met?

    I was sick for about a week just now, which prompted me to write this article.   I noticed the internal conflict I had and wondered how many others also struggles with this question – Should I be working while sick?

    When the work is light, the answer is simple – I work from home and take it easy until I am better.  I don’t need to take time off as the work is mellow enough to let me rest here and there. When the work is hectic, this is where the decision of whether to work and how to work while sick matters. This is also where soft skills like self awareness, self confidence, communication, and delegation can guide me to the right approach every time.

  • Self Awareness – Know thyself – I know I would have a hard time resting if I all of a sudden took time off for a cold.   I would feel guilty especially if I didn’t have a fever.  I would end up worrying more about the work that I left behind.  How would I catch up?   What’s important here is
    • Know my health – can I still function?  Will working make me much worse?
    • Know the way I stress – How will what I decide affect my stress level?
    • Know my mind – Can I let it go and truly rest?
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  • 3 Leadership Lessons from KungFu Panda 3

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    This weekend, our family went to see KungFu Panda 3 and loved it.   It was both entertaining for the kids and educational for us all.   I was amazed at how well the story line conveyed some fundamental leadership lessons while being utterly adorable at the same time.  If you haven’t seen it yet, I highly recommend it.

    Here are 3 leadership lessons I learned.

    Leadership lesson 1: Step outside your comfort zone

    Shifu (Panda’s master): If you only do what you can do, you’ll never be better than what you are.
    Po (Panda): But I like who I am!
    Shifu: You don’t even know who you are!

    This was one of my favorite quotes in the movie.  We all love our comfort zones, but that’s not where we will develop our leadership skills.  Leadership requires challenging ourselves and be willing to raise our hand for a new role even if we are not sure we can do it.   The more we step outside our comfort zone, the more we can learn about ourselves.  Great leaders are humble and self-aware.

    Ask yourself two questions:

  • Are you doing what you can do today?  If the answer is yes for more than 50% of your job, perhaps it’s time to look for new opportunities to challenge yourself in your current job or find a new role
  • Do you know what kind of a leader you are?  If you quickly said yes.  I would say – reevaluate.   Most great leaders have a growth mindset.  They are constantly learning about themselves and how to become better.    You may already be a good leader, but there is always room to evolve into an even better one.
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    4 Soft Skills Every Manager Needs

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    Managers with stronger skills in multiple areas have greater chances of becoming successful. As a manager, you need both hard skills (e.g. business or project management) and soft skills (e.g. leadership skills) to be effective.  I would argue soft skills are more important than hard skills as you get more senior in your career.  If you have a range of soft skills, you can facilitate enhanced adaptability, successful collaboration, and become far more valuable for your organization. Here are 4 soft skills every manager needs to possess in order to become successful in the modern business environment.

    1.     Leadership and People Management Skills

    As a manager, you are required to attract, retain, direct, motivate, train, and manage a high performance team. Considering the increased workplace diversity, it is also important for you to learn to manage people from different cultures with different working styles.  It is important to treat team members as individuals, take time to understand their strength, development areas, and career goals, and devise customized ways to motivate each to their highest possible performance.

    To learn more about how to become a better people manager, read What Makes a Good Manager – 7 Qualities

    2.     Communication Skills

    Communication is a critical skill that every manager must possess.

    • Communicating your ideas with senior management and other key stakeholders is important to get support to implement effective strategies and achieve long-term business goals.
    • Communicating clearly with your team will ensure each team member understand the overall company and group direction, and how their individual roles and ownership fit within it.
    • Communicating effectively with cross-functional partners will help you build relationships across the organization and help your company be more effective.

    Communication skills include both verbal and written communication skills and can be used in formal and informal settings.   For more tips on how to improve your communications and interpersonal skills, read these two articles

    3.     Conflict Resolution Skills

    Conflicts can happen all the time at work.   For example,

    • Conflict between difficult personalities on your team
    • Conflict in business direction that causes a difficult situation for your team.

    In either case, you as a manager are responsible for helping your team resolve these conflicts once they are escalated to your attention.    Additionally, it’s in your interest to coach your team members on how to resolve conflicts on their own in the future.  You can teach them about

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    5 Tips to Improve Teamwork in the Workplace

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    Good teamwork calls for creating conditions that encourage everyone in the team to share their ideas, feel empowered, and perform in a collaborative and coordinated manner. As a team leader, you are responsible to develop people’s strengths, build good relationships with people, and set meaningful team goals to facilitate it.

    If you are a team leader or manager, you can improve teamwork in your workplace for specific projects or to achieve overall objectives of the company using the following 5 tips.

    1.     Appreciate Your Team Members’ Efforts

    Only by appreciating others and making your team members aware of the importance of their role can you drive your team towards success. Engage all your team members by sharing information relevant to your project and recognizing their participation through regular feedback.  Besides this, reward all members of the team for achieving specific goals to motivate them and make them more committed towards the project or the company.

    2.     Facilitate Idea Sharing

    Set up either physical or virtual work spaces to enable team members to get together to brainstorm, share ideas, or discuss progress on projects. An open-work environment is not always appropriate for team discussions, so you might need outdoor or remote spaces in the workplace to facilitate team meetings.

    3.     Discuss Team Dynamics on a Regular Basis

    Encourage open communication during team meetings to discuss team dynamics in order to make your team more effective and productive. Invite ideas and suggestions as to how team members could elevate teamwork to achieve specific goals. These discussions should always be used as a chance to improve team dynamics rather than criticizing someone in front of other team members.

    4.     Welcome Questions, Suggestions, and Comments

    Encourage everyone on the team to put forward their ideas, suggestions, and feedback regarding the project to identify and correct issues and increase the effectiveness of the team in a timely manner. Remember that all great ideas and improvements come up through questions or by looking at a situation from a different perspective, so encourage all types of input from each team member.

    5.     Provide Learning Opportunities

    By offering training or providing learning opportunities on an ongoing basis, you can strengthen team members’ skills and capabilities for consistent growth and development. Also, you can assign mentors or hire an external professional coach to develop specific skills and competencies within the team as well as individuals.  By investing in their learning opportunities, you’ll also be grooming future leaders. These learning opportunities can come in the form of furthering their education.  For example, if your team is in the HR function, you can encourage them to learn through online courses like a HR Masters Online.

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    Your comments:  What challenges are you facing in facilitating better teamwork?   What other tips do you have to improve teamwork in the workplace?  Share your comments below

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    How to Manage Millennials on Your Team

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    It’s my distinct pleasure to introduce our first Executive Author, Kate Lin (pen name).  Kate has an MBA from Stanford Graduate School of Business, and over 20 years of work experience.  In the last 2 years, she has had extensive experience managing Millennials (aka recent college graduates) in her operations team.  Here are her insights and tips on:

    • The benefits and challenges of having Millennial team members.
    • How to effectively manage Millennials – what to do and not to do.
    • How to select the best Millennials to work on your team.

    Here is our interview; some answers are paraphrased.

    Lei: Kate, thank you so much for your time.  To set some context, what is your definition of a Millennial?

    Kate: Anyone born in the mid-1980’s until now — generally people right out of school, or those who’ve been out of school for a few years but are just entering the world of business.

    Lei: What do you think the benefits are of having Millennials on your team?

    Kate: They have no real baggage. Though not all of them are completely naive, this is mostly their “first time at the rodeo”.  There are 3 great traits of the Millennial generation:

    • Openness. This is a little bit due to self-selection as a result of my industry (tech, tech-related services), but they’re open to trying different things to accomplish a goal. They are also eager to learn something from the process.
    • Inquisitive. They want to learn why something is the way it is, instead of just doing something robotically. They are motivated by understanding the bigger picture and knowing how their work can contribute to the overall goal.
    • Confident. I have noticed that Millennials don’t hesitate to ask questions when it comes to the learning process; this is also true of young women. The questions aren’t posed in an arrogant way, but they verbalize some of the confusion concerning corporate decisions that those of us with baggage may observe but not mention.

    Lei:  What are some of the key challenges involved with having Millennials on your team?

    Kate: Many Millennials grew up being awarded a medal for “showing up”.  I have seen 4 common challenges:

    • Entitled. Many Millennials grew up always getting what they wanted, or were thought of as A++ in their parents’ eyes. Unfortunately, college doesn’t help too much with their perspective. In these cases, the workplace can be a harsh wake-up call for them.  If you happen to be the first manager of a person who is like this, you have to be prepared to deliver tough information in a way that is direct, but doesn’t bruise any potentially fragile egos.

    • Difficult to focus. Millennials tend to have a built-in attention-deficit disorder that needs to be unlearned once they get to the working world.  The fact that they still have access to all their social channels at work (text messages, chat windows, news feeds for business products like Chatter or Yammer) doesn’t help.  A Millennial’s phone is their lifeline — some don’t think twice about checking their phone (and sometimes texting a reply) while you’re talking to them.  They may even think this is acceptable, since they see executives checking their phones while in meetings.

    • Work-life balance: This is an odd one for me to describe as a “challenge”.  I have seen a generational return to enjoying a life that doesn’t revolve around work. Millennials don’t work if they don’t have to, and they don’t check work emails on weekends if they don’t have to. As a manager at a tech company, I find that this balance can be both rewarding and a challenge, as we may have different interpretations regarding what is expected when a problem is deemed to be a high priority.

    • Impatient and Eager. If they’re bright, they’re going to be eager and will pick up their responsibilities quickly. Since Millennials tend to do their jobs efficiently, they have more time to ruminate. As a result, they may get impatient because they’re bored, but they may not yet have the credibility or autonomy to take on more responsibilities or implement improvements. Or, due to their lack of perspective, they may wonder why executives are being stupid and not doing easy fix XYZ to improve the business, which seems like common sense from their vantage point. The could make them even more impatient or frustrated.

    Lei:  Wow, it sounds like Millennials can be a real challenge if you have them on your team.   Can you talk a little bit about what you think managers should do to effectively manage Millennials?

    Kate: Yes, they can be a challenge.  I also found that knowing some unique characteristics about their generation can really help a manager understand how they can leverage the benefits of this generation, while proactively addressing common challenges early on.  Many Millennials are super smart and capable. With the right guidance, you can inspire them to high performance.

    Here are some of my thoughts on how to effectively manage millennials:

    Have conversations early and often about workplace expectations. Be explicit and don’t assume that the Millennial team member knows what is expected of them in a professional setting, as they grew up in a different generation. This will help you with two of the challenges I mentioned above – difficulty with focusing and a heavy emphasis on work life balance.  For example, talk to them directly about why it may be okay for Executive Jane to be checking and responding to her phone in a meeting, and why it is inappropriate for them to copy the same behavior.

    Another example is being specific if you need them to work after hours and on the weekend.   Since Millennials more highly value their work life balance than other generations, like those of Gen X or the Baby Boomers, it is not enough to just imply those things.

    Guide them to learn how to focus.  Some Millennials have never experienced focused concentration for long periods of time versus multi-tasking. If their work requires writing, researching, or reading, you might want to propose an “interruption-free” half-day, or something where they can take some small steps in seeing the benefits of turning off the social channels in order to concentrate on some work. This may take a few attempts, as you shouldn’t expect a Millennial to fully disconnect cold turkey on Day 1 of this exercise.

    Provide context for their work.  Millennials like to know how their work fits into the bigger picture. Since that is the case, provide context to them when you delegate work. Also, try to allocate time to answer their 

    questions. Once a Millennial understands how their work fits into the big picture, they can execute their work more efficiently, as well as raise concerns if they encounter issues.

    This can also help when a Millennial is impatient about the fact hat management isn’y yet doing anything about a problem that they think is easily fixed. You can at least count on them to voice it to you; when they do, be transparent in your communication — share the larger perspective regarding why management may need to delay this decision. This way they can see that the delay is for good reasons that they were not aware of before.

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