Have You Looked up Lately – Why It’s Important to be Present

Are you “Productive”? I know I have not been. Here is why I am saying this.  There is a famous quote by Alan Watts: “Stop measuring days by degree of productivity and start experiencing them by degree of presence.” By this standard, I haven’t been truly productive at all. For the past 15 years, stress and habit kept me lost in my thoughts most of the day including my walks to and from work, either ruminating about the past or strategizing for the future. ...  read more

How to Master Job Interviews based on the “Psychology of Pricing”

psychology of pricing

Recently, I found myself immersed in a captivating learning session on the “psychology of pricing.” Typically, I approach external learnings with a critical eye, yet this time, I found myself furiously jotting down notes, hanging onto the speaker’s every word. It also dawned on me: the principles of pricing psychology don’t just apply to my role as a digital strategy leader; they also hold profound insights for the art of persuasion in job interviews. ...  read more

Why Extreme Ownership Can Transform Your Career: A Leader’s Perspective

I have been a team leader for over a decade, a role that has brought me both immense joy and, at times, considerable frustration. The difference often hinges on the type of individuals I manage. Currently, I’m experiencing this contrast firsthand as I integrate employees from a downsizing team into my own. This situation has reinforced my belief in the value of extreme ownership—especially when one team member shows potential for this trait while another merely follows instructions without truly engaging. ...  read more

Our Pricey Yet Priceless Night at Aulani

I recently made a decision that had me questioning my own sanity for a moment—a lavish $921 for a single night’s stay at a hotel. It took several attempts to muster the conviction to make this reservation, but looking back, I am glad I took the plunge. This wasn’t just any hotel stay; it was a deliberate step in my new philosophy of embracing the present rather than perpetually waiting for the “right time.” ...  read more

Feel Out of Control at Work? Reframe How You Look at Your Day

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Last week, I came across a piece of wisdom in a newsletter that struck a chord with me during a pivotal time in my life, and I felt compelled to share it with you, believing it might resonate with you too.

Recently, I embarked on a new journey in a strategy role, filled with uncertainty and undefined goals. The ambiguity of what’s within my control and what achievements are attainable this year had started to weigh on me. However, the story I’m about to share has offered me a new perspective on focusing on what I can influence rather than what’s beyond my reach. It’s my hope that this story might offer you a similar sense of relief and renewed focus in your endeavors. ...  read more

It’s Time to Set Your Annual Goals at Work – 3 Tips

It’s that time again.   Most companies will ask professionals to set their annual goals by the first quarter.   As I think about how to set mine this year by March 31, I wanted to share 3 tips that may also help you with yours.   Even if you have already set your goals for this year, I recommend you still read tip #3 below.  I bet you anything you forgot to set this one.  It’s actually the most important one.   I look forward to your comments and questions :-). ...  read more

Tip of the Week – Give Yourself Permission to Do it Imperfectly

I grew up believing “If I cannot do it well, I shouldn’t do it at all.”  Perhaps this is a typical Asian upbringing and teaching.   I am not even sure my parents actually said that to me.   However after receiving many “talks” from my dad about how I could have gotten a better grade on a test (e.g, 100 points vs 93), I think I told myself the above as I don’t want to “disappoint” my dad or get an extra long lecture. ...  read more