When You are Clear on What You Want, The Universe Will Find a Way to Help

This story is not about work, but I think it can apply to many aspects of work and life.    My kids has been wanting a dog since the pandemic started.   Dogs love them and they love hanging out with all the neighborhood dogs.  We have been casually making a list of all the dog types we want.   I have even searched the web for where the puppy breeders are.  However, we haven’t gotten a dog yet. ...  read more

Mid-Year Check-In on My New Year Resolutions & a Path Forward

Can you believe we’re halfway through the year already? Time flies.  Are you still working on your New Year Resolutions?  If you are not, don’t worry, you are not alone.   On average only 46% of people are still working on their New Year resolutions after six months.   Whether you are or not, mid year is a good time to check in and perhaps invigorate your pursuit again to achieve your New Year resolutions.    Back in January, I chose three personal resolutions to focus on: Do Less, Love Myself, and Find Myself.   Here is where I am today and how I plan to move forward. ...  read more

When It Rains It Pours, and then there is Sunshine

On March 10, my employer, silicon valley bank, collapsed overnight.  I was dealing with it okay, but I guess the universe thought I could take on more.   There is a common saying, “trust that the universe will only give you what you can handle.”  I hope so, but I am not as sure as I go through this next wave of personal challenges on top of the work ones. ...  read more

My Employer, Silicon Valley Bank, Collapsed Overnight – Now What?

A week ago, everything fell apart for Silicon Valley Bank (SVB) – the 16th largest bank in the US, and my employer for two and a half year.  I was busy planning our team offsite a week ago.  Now we are in a whole new reality for all 8500 employees – the threat of permanent extinction.

  • I had to cancel the team offsite of course.
  • SVB no longer exists and the parent company filed for bankruptcy
  • Our office locations are all closed ‘temporarily’ but may actually be permanent.  who knows?
  • We are now employed by the bridge bank SVBB, Silicon Valley Bridge Bank, with a new CEO and we have been working like mad helping our clients access their money.
  • We are faced with 3 options that are from okay to ugly – stay independent as a much smaller bank, get acquired by a big players, or close our doors forever.

Only time can tell what will happen next! ...  read more

How to Present Well to Executives – 7 Tips and Examples

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If you want to succeed, you need to learn how to present well to executives.  It is an essential soft skill to  master over time as you progress in your career.   Presenting to executives can be a high-stakes situation, but with the right preparation and delivery, you can make a strong impression and achieve your goals. Here are 7 tips with  examples to help you present to executives effectively. ...  read more

Should You Ask for a Salary Increase – Ask Yourself 3 Questions

It’s nearly year end.  It’s time for self-evaluation and year end reviews.  It may also be a good time to ask for a salary increase from your manager.   However should you do it?   The best way to determine if you should do it is ask yourself 3 questions

Which 3 Questions?

Question 1 – Do you have a good way to describe what you do today and how you contribute to your team or the company’s bottom line? ...  read more