How to Improve Your Life and Work Today? Try OACS

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I have been interviewing therapists to see if I can find one that is a good fit.   This post is not about recommending you to get a therapist.  That’s totally up to you.   It’s about sharing a useful tip one therapist shared with me that immediately improve my perspective and thus my life and work.   Apply OCAS!  What is OCAS?  I will get to that in a few paragraph. ...  read more

How to Be More Productive at Work – Shorten Meetings by 5 min

Shorten meetings by 5 min?  How can that be more productive?  This concept may seem counter-intuitive but I think you will agree with me once you finish reading this post.    Have you noticed that our jobs now are full of meetings?  My meetings can run from 8am to 4pm with maybe one or two 30 min break in the middle.   This leaves very little time to think, plan, or work. ...  read more

How to Influence Others to Make Changes

Do you know how to influence others to listen to your ideas?   The ability to influence others is one of the most important soft skills to develop, especially as you get more senior in your career.   It is more of an art than a science.  The good news is I believe anyone can master the influence skills if you put in efforts to develop it.  If I can learn it, so can you.   🙂 ...  read more

I Turned 50 and I Am Learning the Art of Not Giving a “F*ck”

Hubby gave me a funny present for my birthday this year (see below).   He knows me well and it’s exactly what I needed.  I really cannot believe I am half a century old.  When I say I am 50 to others, I feel like I am talking about someone else.   I always thought that someone who is 50 years old is old and also have their sh*t together because they know how life works by this time. ...  read more

Should I Take a Leave from Work? Absolutely Yes and Here is Why

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Looking back, I have taken 5 leaves from work already in my 20+ year career.  Some happened unexpectedly and others intentional.  Each time it was a difficult decision or unexpected turn of events.   I want to share my story in case it can help you think about whether you should take a leave from work. ...  read more

Free Mental Fitness Seminar – Monday Aug 8, 2022 5:30pm PST

I was pretty lost in both my career and personal life before finding the Mental Fitness boot camp. I was so overwhelmed I was considering therapy and medication. This boot camp has really given me the tools to navigate all the challenges life throws at you. I have a much easier time getting over frustrating situations, am kinder to myself, and am happier overall! This course has made such a big impact on my life – I am forever grateful to have found it!
– Cindy, Program/Product Manager

As you know, I have been coaching the Mental Fitness bootcamp for achievers since Aug 2021.  I love it as it has changed my life when I took it in Feb 2021.  I am grateful to be able to help other professionals like Cindy to also learn mental fitness and thrive in their lives.

Want to find out more?   

Come to this free Mental Fitness seminar hosted by me and two of my past bootcamp graduates – Connie and Roshi.   We will share our stories and tell you more about ...  read more