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How to Build Social Wealth to Achieve Lasting Happiness

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When we talk about wealth, social wealth, depth of our connections to others, is often the most overlooked type. We take for granted that when we’re young, we’re surrounded by classmates, teammates, and family. But as life gets busier, friendships become harder to maintain. We forget how essential social wealth really is. You can have money, health, time, even inner peace—but if you’re alone, life will still feel empty. In fact, research shows that social isolation shortens life spans and makes us less happy. ...  read more

Time Wealth: How to Gain Freedom & Control Over Your Schedule

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If you asked me 30 years ago whether I felt wealthy in time, I would have laughed. Back then, I was working 60–90 hours a week in consulting, often late into the night and on weekends. I still remember my very first business trip with McKinsey. I was thrilled to be flying from Hong Kong to Beijing, imagining sightseeing and soaking in the city. Instead, I spent nearly the entire trip inside the hotel, working from 7 a.m. until 2 a.m. on client interviews and decks. I barely saw the city at all. That early experience set the tone: my time wasn’t mine. My schedule belonged to clients, managers, and deadlines. ...  read more

How to Manage Overwhelm at Work When Everything Feels Mandatory

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advice for the overwhelmed professional

A few weeks ago, my friend and colleague—let’s call him Andy—came to me completely overwhelmed. He’s been raising the same flag to his manager for the past six months: he and his team are under-resourced and overworked. His manager listens, nods, but nothing changes. No extra hands. No realistic reprioritization. Just more piling on. ...  read more

How to Work with a New Boss When Your Manager is on Leave

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Leadership transitions are tricky — even more so when your trusted manager goes on temporary leave, and you suddenly find yourself reporting to a skip-level boss. The dynamics shift, the expectations aren’t always clear, and even well-intentioned communication can be misunderstood.

In a recent coaching conversation, we explored Chelsea’s situation: a smart, capable team member grappling with this very challenge. If you’ve ever felt frustrated, confused, or unrecognized during a leadership transition, her story — and the lessons from it — may resonate with you. ...  read more

So I Left My Job and Now I Can’t Sleep: The Challenges with Financial Freedom Nobody Talks About

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financial freedom challenges

It’s been two weeks since I officially said farewell to full-time work. You would think I’d be living the dream right now — waking up whenever I want, traveling the world, feeling nothing but freedom. After all, I worked 28 years for this. And yet, reality looks a little different.

The weirdest part? I’m actually having trouble sleeping.  I use to sleep soundly for at least 7-8 hours.  Now I find myself waking up at 5 or 6 am, thinking.  It’s like my brain is floating around, searching for a new anchor now that the old one — work — is gone.  Yes, financial freedom means I can have vocational freedom now – work with who I want, how I want, and on what I want.    But what is that?    I have some ideas but nothing concrete.  Freedom sounds amazing in theory, but in practice? It’s a lot. ...  read more

Farewell and See You Out There

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rollercoaster ride

After 4+ unforgettable (and occasionally truly unhinged) years, it’s time to say farewell.

When I joined, I thought I was signing up for one job… but 4 months in, surprise! A merger turned all of our jobs upside down and gave us a front-row seat to a masterclass in change management (and “how to bond with strangers over shared chaos”).  From there, it only got more interesting—company collapse, another acquisition, new teammates, new systems, new acronyms. ...  read more

A Birthday Letter to My Mom — And a New Tradition

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Last month, I started something new — something simple but meaningful. I wrote a letter to my dad for his 81st birthday.  That letter wasn’t about making peace or fixing the past. It was about connection — sharing small but cherished memories that shaped how I see him, and showing him, in writing, how much he means to me. ...  read more