Aim Low and Get Somewhere – Aiming to Write the Crappiest Article Ever Written :-)

This video clip motivated me to write and finish this article.   It is from a Netflix movie I just watched called “Set it up.”  While the movie is so-so, this 1 min clip is funny, practical, and inspiring.  It helped me get over the writer’s block I have had for a month.  More importantly, it will help you get unstuck if you are feeling overwhelmed at the moment. ...  read more

Podcast – How to Develop Your Leadership Skills Today

How to develop leadership skills

Today, we went to our kids’ elementary school’s “Back to School” night.  As I was leaving, Isabel’s English teacher stopped me to gush about Isabel.  Apparently, she took upon herself last month to

  • Organize their classroom’s Chinese and English book library
  • Got a few of her girlfriends to help her
  • Together came up with rules for how the students can checkout books and where returns should be placed when done.
  • Held an opening ceremony in class to introduce the new library and process.

Everyone loved it and it’s working well since.  I was more than impressed.  I didn’t share this story to brag about my own child.  The reason I shared this story is to help you think about how to develop leadership skills.  It’s never too late to start.  What it takes is ...  read more

Podcast – What are the Leadership Skills Needed for Individual Contributors and Team Leaders

what are leadership skills

Last time, we discussed Leadership Skills – Why It is Critical to Your Success. This week, we continue the discussion with what are leadership skills and how are they different when you are a individual contributor vs a team leader.

Again, I am joined here by our Executive Author – Jaime Lapena who shares his thoughts along with mine to help you with leadership skills. ...  read more

Podcast with Transcription – Leadership Skills – Why It is Critical to Your Success

When Isabel, my older daughter, finished 3rd grade, she was recognized by her teacher for her leadership potential.  Mr. Lee, her head teacher, advised us to nurture her leadership skills – allow her to make her own decisions, encourage her to volunteer and lead activities, let her explore new ideas.  I remember being both impressed by his comments and proud of Isabel. ...  read more

How to Work with Incompetent People and Not be Affected

how to work with incompetent people

In my first job out of college, I worked in consulting and used to travel a lot and work late.  One night, three colleagues and I finished work around 9pm and shared a cab back to our hotel.  After being in the cab for 20 min, we knew clearly the cab driver was taking us for a ride for a better fare.  It was another 15 minutes before we got to the hotel.  As soon as we arrived, 3 of us, including me complained to the hotel lobby attendant that our driver was “shady”.  We paid him his fare, $5 more than usual, but got into a heated argument with the driver.  I was upset for at least another 30 min after that. ...  read more

Dare to be Happy – You Can Change Your Career at Any Age

change your career at any age

85% of workers worldwide admit to hating their jobs when surveyed anonymously, according to a Gallup poll released in late 2017.  Yet, many of us tend to stay in our jobs and careers, thinking it’s too late to make a change.  I am here to tell you – it’s never too late!  Dare to be happy and bold.  You can change your career at any age. ...  read more

How to Communicate Strategically and With Impact – 5 Tips You can Use Immediately

communicate strategically and with impact

Strategic and impactful communication skills are critical to success in almost any career.    Business professionals absolutely need these skills, but so do professionals in the technical arena, like architects, engineers, developers, etc…  The better you can translate the technical details of your work into impactful, simple business and customer outcomes, the more a business audience can appreciate your contribution.   In turn, they are more likely to want to partner with you and support you in your promotion.  ...  read more